If s/he doesn't tell you, its something that probably isn't any of your concern, remember if you go looking for something, you will find it. It is not your job to illuminate your partners problems from past relationships and make their wrongs right, the past should remain buried in the past.
4. Do not invite your partner to a family gathering in the first months of dating, no matter what your brain tells you, NO:
Inviting a partner to a family gathering could be misinterpreted as a serious move and if this happens too early within a relationship it may scare of your partner. Whether or not you want them to meet your quirky, cool Aunt Gladys, its still too soon, play it cool and stop trying too hard. Remember you don't want your partner to be bombarded by a reams of questions. Include your family in a few conversations and let her know you love them.
3. Do not try and move too fast:
In a blossoming relationship, it is still paramount for both parties to understand that its too easy to move too fast when you are still in the honeymoon phase. This could be the end of your relationship, if your partner thinks the 'spark' and 'mystery' from the relationship is gone. Whether its getting new hobbies, spending time with your friends or just having some time alone, this could prolong a relationship.
2:DON'T compare your new partmer with your ex:This in its self could be a deal breaker, one thing woman hate, is being compared to an ex. Yes do compliment and notice the difference between your current and your ex, but ensure that is kept in your head. It would be very detrimental to your relationship, when you have an argument and something like, "Carol was never like this", pops out of your mouth.
1: Don't lie:
Not even a white lie is acceptable in a relationship, say whats on your mind, remember you build the foundation n which your house is built and a house built on lies will surely crumble, honesty is the best policy.
